Comments on: Why now? http://www.theantiblogger.com/why-now-237/ tagline? No thanks. Wed, 11 Jan 2012 23:52:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Haven http://www.theantiblogger.com/why-now-237/comment-page-1/#comment-40431 Haven Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:33:14 +0000 http://www.theantiblogger.com/?p=237#comment-40431 Our Sense of self comes from our need to map our relationships. After a break up with an NPD person, and a lot of healing time, you are forced to recognize so many parts of yourself and claim your strengths. People who have not gone through this are at a spiritual and emotional level no where near our own, they sense how little they can do for us therapeutically. Just as you were before your NPD person, they are now: Looking for a relationship as therapy. Discounting friendship, or companionship even. While you are finding simple friendship can be very precious, and wish for a companion who simply understands. Its only been 8 months since I broke all communications with my NPD person. Only yesterday I think I noticed something different, and that because I found a woman who had gone through the exact same thing with and NPD person. I suspect we will only be able to bond with another who has gone through this, and grown similar as we have. Survivors bond thing, perhaps the only one our spirit and emotions will actually be able form a long lasting bond. Good luck to you, but write me if you wish, it helps just to know anyone understands. In spirit and understanding A Our Sense of self comes from our need to map our relationships. After a break up with an NPD person, and a lot of healing time, you are forced to recognize so many parts of yourself and claim your strengths. People who have not gone through this are at a spiritual and emotional level no where near our own, they sense how little they can do for us therapeutically. Just as you were before your NPD person, they are now: Looking for a relationship as therapy. Discounting friendship, or companionship even.
While you are finding simple friendship can be very precious, and wish for a companion who simply understands.

Its only been 8 months since I broke all communications with my NPD person. Only yesterday I think I noticed something different, and that because I found a woman who had gone through the exact same thing with and NPD person.

I suspect we will only be able to bond with another who has gone through this, and grown similar as we have. Survivors bond thing, perhaps the only one our spirit and emotions will actually be able form a long lasting bond.
Good luck to you, but write me if you wish, it helps just to know anyone understands.
In spirit and understanding
A

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