Fool me three times and A) I’m a fuckin’ idiot and B) You’re a desperate lying whore that can’t face up to her own reality.
But really, I can’t blame you — I am in fact an idiot for thinking people change. I gave you credit that you didn’t deserve and it came back to bite me in the sack.
I really thought I’d be a bit more upset about this final bit of betrayal … Maybe I am and I’m just not letting it all out, or perhaps I’ve watched you decieve for so long I’m just a bit more mentally prepared than anticipated. I figured, at the very least, I’d want to say something hurtful but this is just about all the hurtful I can muster up right now.
Your concepts of love and honesty are fucked — beyond repair I’m afraid. I hope you grow up to learn what it is to be an adult some day.
Fuck you for proving me right.
Tags:bitch, liar, sad, whore
I completely agree. People can be so fucked up. I def. understand what you’re talking about, and people need to really grow up and stop assing around.
very interesting, but I don’t agree with you
Idetrorce
Life moves on… You will get over it. Time heals everything. Ive learned that from my own experiences.
Good Luck
This is exactly what just happened to me…I definitely feel your pain to the t.
None of this can happens without two things. The two “C” words. I know you’re thinking, NO, it takes three “C” words. But really it is all about Consent and Conditions.
You consented to being hurt when you offered something on the condition that you receive something in return.
Conditional Offer + Acceptance=Contract
This isn’t a contract it is a relationship, so:
Conditional Offer + Rejection=Consentual Pain.
What this means is, you chose to give your feeling of love to a person who chose not to return it to you. No biggie if its “unconditional love”, but from what I read above, you placed conditions and likely “fidelity” as one of those conditions on your offering of love.
When you give the gift of love, unfortunately those who accept it, get to dictate the conditions by which they accept it. In contrast those who give love believe they in fact dictate the terms of the love, but not so.
Even worse you are a male and women choose.
When you love you are making an unconditional offer. Once accepted she then has the option to set what ever conditions she wants.
The down side of it all is women choose, so if they are bad choosers of men they become bitter over time and blame men for their bad choices.
Moral, treat the third “C”, C*nt, like what she is from the beginning. Negotiate like she is a piece of ass. Be nice, but ultimately you know why you’re even speaking to her, don’t lose focus of that. Give her no gifts, nothing for the first 6 months minimum. Once she has submitted to you, make sure you subtly degrade her to keep her esteem on edge. Then you’ll likely have a low self confidence, low self esteem, faithful girlfriend. If not she’ll eventually wander and you’ll be back here posting again.
Have a nice day!
I know! My bf of 4+ years left me for a 17 year old high school girl b/c he cant deal with the real world, growing up and facing the fact that he’s 20. I’ve given him any and everything, and the least i could’ve gotten is some fucking respect. He fucked me over, broke my heart.
I dont think we ever get over this shit, we just learn to deal and live with it.
this is awesome and true….
People are stupid and spoiled as fuck. They just need to grow up.
I am so in tune with this, I feel like A a fucking idiot. He came on to me, made me feel like I was everything, all the while he was seeing a much younger woman, dumped me last night, he was seeing her firt and it was easier to hurt me. It is the time and energy in caring and helping that I would like to take back.